It's time to get serious. On December 24th we will have exactly
FIVE WHOLE MONTHS until the BIG DAY! In my mind I am freaking out.
We started this journey on December 17th and I can't believe it will be a year come Monday my handsome fiance proposed to me. I had sooo much time and now I feel like I have no time.
Where did it all go that fast?
Yes, I am a Type 2 diabetic bride. Hey that has a nice ring to it. But stress is a no go with diabetics. It actually makes it worst. So it's important that these last few months don't drive me insane. I can't afford a health crisis.
So what can Brides do to manage stress here are a few tips I have found to be keeping me calm.
Slow Down – Most brides take off running as soon as they get engaged. I know I did. It’s a good idea to take a step back and take a deep breath. You don’t need to be planning your wedding every minute of every day. By slowing down you’ll be able to see what you’re doing, become more organized, and actually enjoy the planning process. Not to mention your fiancé won't be all upset because your spending more time planing and not with him.
Get Help – No, you don’t have to do everything yourself. One mistake many brides make is thinking that they must have a hand in each and every item on their wedding planning list. Instead, get some help. Delegate some of the tasks to others and allow them to handle their tasks without interference. This will help you prepare for the wedding without extra stress. For example I have found the best idea ever was to have my bridesmaids pick their own dresses. I gave them the colors and allow them to pick their style of dress. Now I don't have to worry about someone not liking what they are wearing. This means everyone is happy and comfy! YAY!
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff – Some brides get caught up in the small details of the wedding. Remember that some decisions really don’t matter all that much. Don’t dwell on the little details and keep in mind the details that are most important. As the bride you’ll need to be able to let some of the decisions go and don’t worry about the small things.
Keep the Big Picture in Mind – Remember that the process itself is part of the fun of the wedding experience. After all, for all the months of planning, the wedding itself will be over in a matter of a few short hours. You’ll be happier throughout the process if you can enjoy the experience of planning the event.
Don’t become a Bridezilla – Nobody likes a crazy bride. Avoid becoming a bridezilla by taking things less seriously. If you find yourself slipping into this stage it’s time to step back and do something to relax. Take a day off from planning and do something else. Have some fun with your fiancé that doesn’t revolve around planning the wedding. For us this is usually a movie, a drive or a trip his favorite spot Game Stop.
Stay Organized – This is one thing that everyone tells me, I am VERY ORGANIZED. I even have one vendor tell me I was her most organized bride. Yes, If you stay organized you’ll have a much easier planning time and therefore a better experience. Keep a notebook and calendar with all the information you need in one place. Use a timeline to keep you on track. I got a brides book and put a calendar in it. I look at it every month to see what I have to do next. Then add to the calendar if I have too. It also includes my work schedule, Doctor appointment...paydays. I write everything down.
Relax – Stay relaxed. When you’re tense and nervous you won’t be enjoying yourself. Take bubble baths, get regular massages, exercise, and do fun activities that you enjoy. When you find yourself getting too stressed out do something to help relax and release the pressure you’re feeling. Often my fiancé to helps me recognize when I am getting too stressed out. When you can take some time to renew yourself.
And most importantly...
But most of all remember you can't control everything. There will be things that are out of your control. Accept it and keep it moving!!!
Happy Planning....
Sweet Talk & Love
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